Re: So I talked to his ex..
Well, what a loaded question.
In my experience with a narcissist, he was amazing at first. It, over several years, developed into the roller coaster from hell.
2 years on that coaster exploded into a crap storm. Serious assaults with life long (disabilities) implications, jail, restraining orders, good behaviour and then him moving and doing a 25 mile work commute each way because it is “cheaper” (nice excuse. No other reason for the uhaul aside from being closer to me)
5 years total after, he is still a pain I.M.A.
I should have ran when he first disclosed that he had a harassment record, but he was handsome, younger, educated and we connected.
Now I cannot have a life, 2 years after the restraining orders ended....but I should have known that the 2nd time he breached his probation because he was stalking me.
Do not tell him you talked to her and change your phone number.
You are either the one he will stalk, or the one he will behave with because he is still stuck on her...
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