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post #91 of 98 (permalink) Old 12-08-2019, 05:06 PM
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Do you think they were fated? Like really? Dont you think him suddenly going to catalonia and through his arrival there, getting together with me made more sense? In terms of fate ?
Really? Fate? As if humans have no agency and control over their lives? No, I absolutely do not think fate has anything to do with it because I don't believe in fate.

Quite a lot of people would like to travel to a new country, stay a while, and enjoy the company of a lovely resident of said country. Noting unusual about that.


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post #92 of 98 (permalink) Old 12-08-2019, 05:38 PM
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OP is perma banned. She has another account taking about the same guy. That account is perma banned for name calling and insulting others. This thread is clearly moving in that direction.

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I thought her writing style was familiar. She comes on here and asks a question then proceeds to get more hostile over time. If she is real, I honestly feel bad for this guy. She is obsessed.
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I thought her writing style was familiar. She comes on here and asks a question then proceeds to get more hostile over time. If she is real, I honestly feel bad for this guy. She is obsessed.


Goodness... I was sure she wanted to “develop tools to help her assess these situations better in the future.”

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My ex and I dated in 2014, breaking up in early 2016.
We were friends when I joined the university but he didnt like me that time. I was of course finding him attractive as he's very suave and very attractive.

In late 2014 he moved to Catalonia and I'm Catalan so we started meeting up frequently whenever I went there which led to sex and began dating. It was mostly long distance but we met up frequently.

Our relationship was good but we were very different people in terms of personality. And it wasnt that serious even though we did put up pictures of each other on SM and met each others family.

However, he decided to return to UK in late 2015 and while were living together when he moved back, we broke up in early 2016.

Now, on 6th dec 2019, he got married to a girl I'm now finding out was his crush before he began dating me. It was mutual from both sides.

Apparently he wanted her throughtout mid 2013-mid 2014 but they just couldn't get together that time.

I knew he was seeing her and she was a student at the same university as well as I had seen her around.

They had a starkly different relationship than us.

My ex boyfriend likes his independence and I do that too but he with her, he would stay with her nearly all the time.
They would eat lunch together, study together, and even go home together.
They would by themselves only when she had classes/he at work. Otherwise whenever he would come, he was always with her.
I had also seen him blatantly staring at her stupidly which looked ridiculous.

However a friend showed me the wedding video and though he's Jewish, he made a speech saying how he met her and it "love" at first sight in 2014. Then claimed fate/life separated them in 2015 but they eventually found their way back to each other.

He also claimed he knew it was a deep connection/love because when he met her again for the 2nd time after the separation, he still harboured those feelings he had for her, was guilty and wanted her back. JUST 1 MONTH AFTER OUR BREAK UP IN EARLY 2016.

He also said that she taught him what love is, to accept himself for who he is and is supportive/caring to the core.

I dont care for my ex but I was devastated hearing this. So what was I then? He dated me in between after her and I'm completely erased?
How did he marry this girl so quickly?
He is married move on.
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Goodness... I was sure she wanted to “develop tools to help her assess these situations better in the future.”

she did like my post.
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she did like my post.


Mine too.


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Dona boja.
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Are you going over all this b/c you're just curious, or do you think you will gain something from it?

EDIT: Moot question as I see TS is banned.
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