I recently broke up with my boyfriend. I didnít want to, I love him but he gave me no other choice.
Upon reflection I have realized that it wasnít lack of love or respect, but a lack of value that was the cause. He did not value me.
Value... relative worth or importance. When you really value something you treat it different. I like to go back to this quote... effort is a reflection of interest.
I am writing this to make me feel better about my decision. Any thoughts are welcome
I went back to your Thread on 'Selfishness'.
I think that we are just becoming more and more selfish and we donít even realize it.
In the word, 'selfishness', is self.
We cannot escape ourselves.
It seems that many were early-on spoiled: not to share, or had no need to share (as an only child).
In some, the Ego looms large, it cannot discount itself.
My take: Date those that are more giving, more attentive.
My take: You likely have no chemistry with those somewhat rare birds.
Chemistry and compatibility can be different bed partners.
Present life is before our eyes.
So many beautiful things, and beautiful people.
Many now, resist anything less.
We are woke!
Being aware makes for hard decision-making in such an exciting and diverse world.
If second best cannot fly, can you even make it second base from your home plate?
How good are you?
Ahh, in other's eyes, not in your own!
We are only as good as others allow this of us.