Re: Coping with a partner's body alterations/piercings/tattoos
But that goes without saying, it does matter what the other spouse think's. My wife got her beautiful beautiful long hair cut short. To my displeasure 15 yrs ago. But to say honesty seeing her in bed in are romantic and love making moments with her hair flowing like to me " Wow, l can't believe l have this goddess with me how damn lucky l am" and then it got cut and now it definitely is not the same and is truly nowhere as it once was.
Does she know this yes, but no charge because she justify's her needs above ours. It's doesn't take away what she still is but in my mind it does. So these small things are what adds to the disliking and seems to gain momentum in our daily interactions, and builds barriers that carry over and build and build.
So it may not be mentioned anymore but "l" know it plays a big part in our relationship. Why it's because l was removed from consideration.
If your not the object of your lovers heart, then your just an object.
If you think the grass is greener on the otherside it's not, what you see are the weeds.