Re: Bras, Feminism and Nipples
Southbound....but some of us aren't actually complaining. We are just talking about our own modesty. I mean, as I have said here, I totally get why men look and can't help it, as I can't help it, either. So if I'm going out of my way to hide my nips, this is not because I think men are creepy and can't control themselves or anything like that. I just know they can't help but looking so if I am in a mode of operation where I do not want to be looked at like that (which still does not mean it is "wrong" to look at me or any woman), I take measures to make sure I'm not popping out of a shirt.
I love my body and I love women's bodies in general. Yes it is clear that nature/God designed us to notice each other and be inexplicably physically drawn to each other via visual cues. I love that fact, as it is a primal part of all of us and it feels really good (to me) to feel so animalistic that my body can draw my husband to me in that lusty way.
However, I don't always want to draw just any guy toward me that way, and that's ok, too. It doesn't mean I judge that random guy at all for the fact that he has that type of lusty visual triggers that I love in all of us.