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post #16 of 22 (permalink) Old 09-01-2016, 05:39 PM
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Break glass in case of horny. It's ok, just be aware you are in case of emergency.
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Thanks for responding! Glad your husband is cool with it.

As far as the other woman, nothing much to add but she sounds a bit too controlling for my tastes.

Good luck!
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Later that same night at around 10pm and despite my request for no-contact/no communication, she text messaged me anyways, saying that she had thought of me while out at a lounge with her sister and friends.
Block her completely. A request with no follow-up on your end says that you were still inviting her to reach out (that's likely what her mind thinks). With people that push boundaries to the extreme, you need to erect a brick wall.
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This, and she's a narcissist. I know I say this a lot on here, but this is exactly what they do. They don't want anyone having control but them, and when someone takes it away from them, they flip.

I'd go hard NC, and don't look back. If you end up dating, the head games with this one will be unreal, I just sense it. I've only dated men, and have dated narcissists, but even women can be. They all read from the same play book, it seems. lol

When a narcissist says ''I want to be friends,'' what they really mean is ''I want to keep you around to take you off the shelf when I want to use you.''
Amen, sister! Just cut a narcissist off today after he kept asking me if by "friends only" I meant "no sex." I had to clarify it three times that I don't do FWB! I left it with "let me know if you are ok with that." 24 hours later and no reply from him and I just told him that it's best we aren't friends since it seems you want sex from me. To which he responded, "I never said I only wanted sex from you!" Thank you, Mr. Narcissist! You just made it so easy to go NC forever!
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Amen, sister! Just cut a narcissist off today after he kept asking me if by "friends only" I meant "no sex." I had to clarify it three times that I don't do FWB! I left it with "let me know if you are ok with that." 24 hours later and no reply from him and I just told him that it's best we aren't friends since it seems you want sex from me. To which he responded, "I never said I only wanted sex from you!" Thank you, Mr. Narcissist! You just made it so easy to go NC forever!
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lol Great to hear!

NC is really hard at first, I won't lie. But, once you COMMIT to it for yourself, for your own healing, you will never look back at these narcissists. NC is the only way to deal with a narcissist. I recommend blocking their numbers, because one night you might be sipping on some wine, and the narcissist texts you out of the blue ''hey, I miss you,'' and you might just fall right back into it. I speak from experience lol Stay strong!
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lol Great to hear!

NC is really hard at first, I won't lie. But, once you COMMIT to it for yourself, for your own healing, you will never look back at these narcissists. NC is the only way to deal with a narcissist. I recommend blocking their numbers, because one night you might be sipping on some wine, and the narcissist texts you out of the blue ''hey, I miss you,'' and you might just fall right back into it. I speak from experience lol Stay strong!
Good point. I'd already deleted his contact info, but just went a step beyond and blocked him. Thanks!!
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Good point. I'd already deleted his contact info, but just went a step beyond and blocked him. Thanks!!
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