Oh donít get me wrong, women can and do abuse some men, causing emotional pain to the extend where a man perhaps would beg for some physical punishment instead - i donít want to minimise this. The abuse just typically happens in different ways. Physical harm to men is not the typical way. Thatís one of the areas where Ďequalisationí does not really map onto reality, though in some cases it does.
In your case, I donít know what the issues were. But sounds like she had issues...could have been hormonal (PMS), **** knows.
I would never advocate violence, but sometimes a woman would do this in order to get a reaction out of a guy: she will try to push him Ďover the edgeí and wonít stop until he Ďlosesí it, with words or physical stuff. In those cases, i actually think pretending that you lost it, to get her off your back, might not be such a wrong thing, like a (gentle) slap or spank. You need to get the Crazy under control, screw being pc about it.
She will probably go insane for a moment, but will leave you alone immediately. This is self defence btw. Yes, you can spank people in self defence too
You just need to be sure that you donít ACTUALLY lose it and not start beating the crap out of her. Then itís obviously not ok...
Then itís better to get her out of your way (which may still involve some spanking if she is physically preventing you from leaving) and just leave. You have to judge it carefully whatís the most appropriate thing to do at the time.
Anyway, sounds like itís all water under the bridge now anyway.
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