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Great story fam! Good to know that people are learning things from TAM and not just plowing ahead with the same "oral sex is not important to my husband and I, therefore I'm not doing it".
who has said that?
If they have then why not believe them? Not every man or women likes oral believe it or not.
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Great story fam! Good to know that people are learning things from TAM and not just plowing ahead with the same "oral sex is not important to my husband and I, therefore I'm not doing it".
who has said that?
If they have then why not believe them? Not every man or women likes oral believe it or not.
I guess if you can make some men believe there are 40 virgins waiting for them in the afterlife then you can also make some people believe oral sex doesn’t feel nice.
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Not every man or women likes oral believe it or not.
I am sure there are some out there that don't. I do think there are probably more women uncomfortable with the idea of someone performing oral on them than there are men. I guess I base that on the number of posts over the years in the sex in marriage forum. Actually, I can honestly say I haven't met a single man that doesn't like receiving oral. But quite a few men that don't like giving! Which to me is selfish.
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I do think there are probably more women uncomfortable with the idea of someone performing oral on them than there are men.
For our first 15 years my wife was opposed (she had some guys that were really bad at it). Iím into it but everything else was good so no biggie. I still recall the afternoon in Munich where she realized she does like it. As weíve got older Iím glad weíve expanded the repertoire.




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I am sure there are some out there that don't. I do think there are probably more women uncomfortable with the idea of someone performing oral on them than there are men. I guess I base that on the number of posts over the years in the sex in marriage forum. Actually, I can honestly say I haven't met a single man that doesn't like receiving oral. But quite a few men that don't like giving! Which to me is selfish.
I said it before, my ex boyfriend didnt like oral. First man I knew that always went soft during oral. It just isnt his preference. Other than that, he was fantastic. Though I did miss the excitement of performing oral on him.
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I guess if you can make some men believe there are 40 virgins waiting for them in the afterlife then you can also make some people believe oral sex doesn’t feel nice.


Its not about 'making' people believe 'oral sex isn't nice', its about some actually preferring other things. About some actually not liking oral. I find it really weird that many here seem to think that everyone must like and do what they like and do.
Seems pretty odd to me.
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I said it before, my ex boyfriend didnt like oral. First man I knew that always went soft during oral. It just isnt his preference. Other than that, he was fantastic. Though I did miss the excitement of performing oral on him.
Like your ex boyfriend, there are men and women who don't like oral and prefer other things, that seems to be a big sin here for some reason.
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I am sure there are some out there that don't. I do think there are probably more women uncomfortable with the idea of someone performing oral on them than there are men. I guess I base that on the number of posts over the years in the sex in marriage forum. Actually, I can honestly say I haven't met a single man that doesn't like receiving oral. But quite a few men that don't like giving! Which to me is selfish.
I know men who don't, and I suspect that not all men are honest about this anyway. Going by this thread, some may feel
there is something wrong with them if they don't like it, there isn't of course, but they may stay quiet because they feel there is.
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I guess if you can make some men believe there are 40 virgins waiting for them in the afterlife then you can also make some people believe oral sex doesn’t feel nice.


Its not about 'making' people believe 'oral sex isn't nice', its about some actually preferring other things. About some actually not liking oral. I find it really weird that many here seem to think that everyone must like and do what they like and do.
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Like your ex boyfriend, there are men and women who don't like oral and prefer other things, that seems to be a big sin here for some reason.
There are certainly men who don't like oral sex. I've yet to meet one, but I'm sure they are out there. I'll bet it's around 99% in favor, but there is the 1%.

People here aren't considering it a sin, but it's uncommon. So when you speak to people you know little about on a random internet forum, you tend to generalize. I think guys enjoying BJ's is a fairly safe assumption.

I am curious... what made your husband not like oral? You made a strong point that it was both of your choices. How did you two come to that conclusion?
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I said it before, my ex boyfriend didnt like oral. First man I knew that always went soft during oral. It just isnt his preference. Other than that, he was fantastic. Though I did miss the excitement of performing oral on him.
My last sexual partner didn't hate it but it was not his favorite. He really only enjoyed it when he was super horny otherwise he'd go soft. The good news is I didn't have to do much to get him excited other ways.
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I am curious... what made your husband not like oral? You made a strong point that it was both of your choices. How did you two come to that conclusion?

I’m betting that most of the time the woman comes to the conclusion for him !!!


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I am curious... what made your husband not like oral? You made a strong point that it was both of your choices. How did you two come to that conclusion?

I’m betting that most of the time the woman comes to the conclusion for him !!!


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