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post #1606 of 1719 (permalink) Old 11-29-2019, 09:57 PM
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I dunno girls. Enjoy it for what it is but donít get hung up on thinking long term. If it was all that and a bag of chips, you would have made it work out the first time, no matter the obstacle. Just one old ladies perspective


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I agree with all the resent posts. The chemistry between two people speaks volumes. If you are having the best sex of your life and you think about each other thru the day that is special. The way I see it from my own experiences is those first 6 months are hormones in high drive. Once you get past the hormonal stage then comes in reality, that's what we term as taking off the rose colored glasses. I have been with my "tiger" now for 5 months and we are intense. Christmas time will bring us to the 6 month mark and I am preparing myself for the possibilities of his emotional withdrawal. For now though I am enjoying it thoroughly.
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I was sitting here tonight doing some thinking when I realized it’s been two years since I dropped the bomb on my miserable marriage. I remember wondering what it would be like when I got to this point lol! Holy cow I’m here lol! Where I wanted to be! I sometimes still can’t believe I did it.

I’m the same person but totally not. I’m better, so much better. My sons deceased girlfriend had a favorite saying, “You do you baby”. I feel like that. I’m doing me without all that gunk and depression smothering me. I’m just me. Feels so good! Her death was what energized me to finally leave. Thank you A.

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I was sitting here tonight doing some thinking when I realized itís been two years since I dropped the bomb on my miserable marriage. I remember wondering what it would be like when I got to this point lol! Holy cow Iím here lol! Where I wanted to be! I sometimes still canít believe I did it.

Iím the same person but totally not. Iím better, so much better. My sons deceased girlfriend had a favorite saying, ďYou do you babyĒ. I feel like that. Iím doing me without all that gunk and depression smothering me. Iím just me. Feels so good! Her death was what energized me to finally leave. Thank you A.

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I was sitting here tonight doing some thinking when I realized itís been two years since I dropped the bomb on my miserable marriage. I remember wondering what it would be like when I got to this point lol! Holy cow Iím here lol! Where I wanted to be! I sometimes still canít believe I did it.

Iím the same person but totally not. Iím better, so much better. My sons deceased girlfriend had a favorite saying, ďYou do you babyĒ. I feel like that. Iím doing me without all that gunk and depression smothering me. Iím just me. Feels so good! Her death was what energized me to finally leave. Thank you A.

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Isn't that the best feeling??? Knowing you've come so far, and that you're so much better now than you ever thought you could be... it makes the struggle and the pain of the divorce worth it.

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Have nothing at the moment to add but just wanted to express my appreciation for this thread since I guess I am single and am on TAM too.
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It just seems so cruel.....

Relationships all boil down to blood flow.

To both heads.

This....This is the nub of the stick that pokes me in the eye when the light of day energizes my optic nerve....SunCMars.... The Allegory of the Cave--> On this, I did a '180' and stepped out. The Lion in Winter. Invictus..By Will, Shall.
The Host, Rd is ill, any years left, remain now, in doubt? Red Dog is now lost to us.
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I suspect...

Some many older single men, say.. past 50; let themselves go to seed, for a reason.

They do not shave.
They do not bathe often enough.
They let their hair grow wild and get oily.

Some let their waistlines get monstrous, some let their waistlines get withered, with the waist smaller than those small hips.

They let themselves go for a reason.

No women will bother them, bother with them.

They are left alone with their sloven appearances.

Left alone with their manhood untested.

With their unknown, not known, not diagnosed, undiscovered, their shameful ED.

The blood flow problem bleeds, bloody sad men.

A failing woman can add coconut oil to make herself a viable partner, that failing man views himself having a soft balloon for a head.

They just give up and sag away.

This....This is the nub of the stick that pokes me in the eye when the light of day energizes my optic nerve....SunCMars.... The Allegory of the Cave--> On this, I did a '180' and stepped out. The Lion in Winter. Invictus..By Will, Shall.
The Host, Rd is ill, any years left, remain now, in doubt? Red Dog is now lost to us.
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I might even get laid tonight.

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I suspect...

Some many older single men, say.. past 50; let themselves go to seed, for a reason.

They do not shave.
They do not bathe often enough.
They let their hair grow wild and get oily.

Some let their waistlines get monstrous, some let their waistlines get withered, with the waist smaller than those small hips.

They let themselves go for a reason.

No women will bother them, bother with them.

They are left alone with their sloven appearances.

Left alone with their manhood untested.

With their unknown, not known, not diagnosed, undiscovered, their shameful ED.

The blood flow problem bleeds, bloody sad men.

A failing woman can add coconut oil to make herself a viable partner, that failing man views himself having a soft balloon for a head.

They just give up and sag away.
That's what Viagra, Levitra, and Cialis is for. Why would someone let themselves go over something that can be fixed with a pill?
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I suspect...

Some many older single men, say.. past 50; let themselves go to seed, for a reason.

They do not shave.
They do not bathe often enough.
They let their hair grow wild and get oily.

Some let their waistlines get monstrous, some let their waistlines get withered, with the waist smaller than those small hips.

They let themselves go for a reason.

No women will bother them, bother with them.

They are left alone with their sloven appearances.

Left alone with their manhood untested.

With their unknown, not known, not diagnosed, undiscovered, their shameful ED.

The blood flow problem bleeds, bloody sad men.

A failing woman can add coconut oil to make herself a viable partner, that failing man views himself having a soft balloon for a head.

They just give up and sag away.
It is sad and thatís why I would never say the things I said here to B. Iím not into tearing men down, especially in that way. I feel for him and what heís facing.
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That's what Viagra, Levitra, and Cialis is for. Why would someone let themselves go over something that can be fixed with a pill?
I agree....

The pills simply do not work with every man. They don't.

For some, the side effects are not worth the ten minutes of iffy-jiffy pleasure.

Or, so it seems.

'Most' of these issues have a fix, a fix.

Maybe a surgical one.
Very expensive, and not covered by insurance.

Hmm..

Both the man and his lover must agree to the soft cure.
Much that is ad-hyped is just another disappointment waiting to happen.

Sometimes, it is only anger, even rage, that keeps such men from giving up and taking of their own lives.

This....This is the nub of the stick that pokes me in the eye when the light of day energizes my optic nerve....SunCMars.... The Allegory of the Cave--> On this, I did a '180' and stepped out. The Lion in Winter. Invictus..By Will, Shall.
The Host, Rd is ill, any years left, remain now, in doubt? Red Dog is now lost to us.
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I agree....

The pills simply do not work with every man. They don't.

For some, the side effects are not worth the ten minutes of iffy-jiffy pleasure.

Or, so it seems.

'Most' of these issues have a fix, a fix.

Maybe a surgical one.
Very expensive, and not covered by insurance.

Hmm..

Both the man and his lover must agree to the soft cure.
Much that is ad-hyped is just another disappointment waiting to happen.

Sometimes, it is only anger, even rage, that keeps such men from giving up and taking of their own lives.
That's really sad especially since there are lots of 50 something women who for one reason or another have no need or desire for sex. They would be overjoyed to find a good man to share companionship, emotional support, and affection.
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That's really sad especially since there are lots of 50 something women who for one reason or another have no need or desire for sex. They would be overjoyed to find a good man to share companionship, emotional support, and affection.
One would think, one would think and be wrong.

The lady makes this choice by choosing this celibacy.

The man has no choice. Ah, feels he has....none. No choice.

When he views her breasts and her hips, her soft bottom, he cries out in vain.
Curses his situation.

He remembers what he had at one time, had of many times.

He does, some do.
Many do.

Many men take to drink and become these/those obnoxious bores.

This....This is the nub of the stick that pokes me in the eye when the light of day energizes my optic nerve....SunCMars.... The Allegory of the Cave--> On this, I did a '180' and stepped out. The Lion in Winter. Invictus..By Will, Shall.
The Host, Rd is ill, any years left, remain now, in doubt? Red Dog is now lost to us.
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