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post #1456 of 1719 (permalink) Old 11-01-2019, 04:52 AM
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@FeministInPink You deserved the win.
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You looked amazing in that costume @FeministInPink!
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For some reason that costume makes me think "baby just cares for me" as performed by Nina Simone.
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Meh... I clearly didn't find it funny. And I do have a sense of humor.

I have never liked sarcasm, and frankly I sometimes find it triggering. True sarcasm can be brilliant, but is very rare. Most people pass off *******ry as sarcasm. I find such people mean, insulting, thoughtless, and lacking in empathy--and totally disconnected and uninterested in how their words might make others feel.

I am a very literal person. Someone who uses sarcasm (poorly) without really knowing how I might react... a definite error on his part.

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I agree without knowing you he should keep it 100. But my bet is he was nervous.

For me, I appreciate sarcasm and directness but I am not thin skinned at all and hardly ever get offended. I think it goes back to my family of origin. Growing up with Italians didnt really make one overly sensitive. And I could never be with someone who overthought my every gesture or word and didnt give me the benefit of the doubt. But as the old saying goes, Different strokes for different folks.
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Sounds like a creep to me...
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Thank you!

I love this costume, I would love to have another opportunity to wear it. I felt so beautiful and confident in it. (Except my heels were too tight. But they made my ass look great, LOL)
It will soon be Christmas and I can picture you in that dress singing ďSanta BabyĒ to some lucky dude.

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It will soon be Christmas and I can picture you in that dress singing ďSanta BabyĒ to some lucky dude.
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@Lila I sang "Because The Night" by 10,000 Maniacs. I wanted to do something sultry and sexy... Amy Winehouse songs have the right musical sound for the era that I wanted, but they are very dark lyrically, but "Because the Night" seemed to hit the right tone. (It went over very well.)
@Andy1001 OMG, that is brilliant. I could get a Santa hat... the same friend will likely arrange a Christmas karaoke party. Even if there isn't a special guy in my life by Christmas time, I could definitely do that.

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For some reason that costume makes me think "baby just cares for me" as performed by Nina Simone.
I didn't know this song, so I had to look it up. I can totally see why you would make that association!

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Sounds like a creep to me...
Other than this blip, he's seemed ok so far. I'm going to let this play out and see what (if anything) happens.

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Hive mind, I need your input. I've been chatting with this guy on Facebook Dating for a couple of days. See the following most recent exchange:

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HIM: What do you like to do outside of work?
ME: I love to read. I like to write, but I've taken a hiatus from that as of late. I love music... I like going to karaoke. I like traveling, but I haven't done enough of that lately, something I hope to remedy soon. What about you?
HIM: Aside from karaoke, did you just recite the top three from the basic girl girl manual? [LOL crying emoji]
HIM: Where do you go to karaoke?
So my question is, is this guy negging me? If so, how do I respond?

You guys know me, I'm pretty far from being basic. My skills/abilities in these hobbies borders on professional.
There's a basic girl manual? I definitely need a copy then, because my three guesses for basic girl activities would be things like shopping, makeup, and watching reality TV.

I wouldn't respond to the comment, and it seemed rhetorical as he went right on to ask a proper question. But it's good you're aware of it.
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@FeministInPink, I wouldn't make too much of his comment. It seems more awkward than rude. You seem to be playing it by ear and learning more about this person. You'll know soon enough whether he just has trouble communicating over that channel or if he is a pass.


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Mrs. Conan and I need to be in D.C. next Halloween!

Way more fun than what we did!
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There's a basic girl manual? I definitely need a copy then, because my three guesses for basic girl activities would be things like shopping, makeup, and watching reality TV.
Oh God...more proof that I'm not a real girl. I do none of those things!!!!

ETA: FIP...you look amazing!! I think you won Halloween this year!!!!
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