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  • About Bluesclues
    I am a:
    Female
    Relationship Status
    Marriage
    Length of time in current relationship:
    4-8 yrs.
    Sexual Orientation
    Heterosexual
    Biography
    I am 44 years old, biological mother of two, step mom to three (ages 5, 11, 11, 14, 22)

    I am in my second marriage. First marriage my SAHD XH had an affair (dday with bartender 10/2008), we tried to R, I didn't cope well, sought out my HS sweetheart and had an exit A. Married to WH2 since 2011. This is his 3rd marriage. DDay with COW 12/2013. Affair resulted in STD that caused viable pregnancy to miscarry.

    Our blended family of wee ones truly love each other, which gives me the strength to stay and fix this. I can't break another home for them. That, and I love WH2 beyond words. WH2 is working hard (finally) and has a good IC that has helped him make a lot of progress.

    Not sure what to label myself - I identify mostly as a BS (x2), I am not an MH, but I was a WW. Lots of pain hats to wear at once.

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  • Last Activity: Today 08:42 AM
  • Join Date: 03-29-2016

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10-22-2019
10:53 PM - EleGirl mentioned Bluesclues in post Re: Do you know how to spell your child’s name?
Bluesclues Is your ex dyslex...
09-03-2019
08:26 PM - Bluesclues mentioned 20yr in post Parenting a Child with ADD
... good student. Like 20yr ‘s son, to-dat...
03-24-2019
09:26 PM - Bluesclues mentioned sokillme in post Caused/Received Chaos on SI.
...get busy dying (did sokillme already quote movie ...
10-08-2018
08:20 AM - lucy999 mentioned Bluesclues in post Re: He isn’t speaking to me
Bluesclues how things this morn...
10-07-2018
08:11 PM - FieryHairedLady mentioned Bluesclues in post Re: He isn’t speaking to me
Bluesclues Is he having some m...
01:25 PM - minimalME mentioned Bluesclues in post Re: He isn’t speaking to me
Bluesclues, do you come from an...
07-21-2018
11:34 PM - frustratedinphx mentioned Bluesclues in post Re: I had it all threw it all away...
...ase- me. I think Bluesclues drove what I said ho...
06-06-2018
10:18 AM - Ursula mentioned Bluesclues in post
03-18-2018
06:14 PM - Cromer mentioned Bluesclues in post Re: Tried to be sexy and it backfired
... out, but it's good Bluesclues that you talked abou...
06:30 AM - arbitrator mentioned Bluesclues in post Re: Tried to be sexy and it backfired
...his is his problem, Bluesclues, and he needs counse...
01:50 AM - EleGirl mentioned Bluesclues in post Re: Tried to be sexy and it backfired
Bluesclues I can understan...
02-28-2018
12:33 AM - FeministInPink mentioned Bluesclues in post Re: All I do is think about leaving
...ne of these men. Bluesclues made an astute obser...
02-10-2018
09:03 AM - SunCMars mentioned Bluesclues in post Re: ASD Meltdowns
Yes, I agree with Bluesclues. A normal [full of h...
05-30-2016
05:09 AM - camerashy mentioned Bluesclues in post Re: Husband won't forgive me
...so nicely put by Bluesclues my H is eating a far...
05-29-2016
11:40 PM - camerashy mentioned Bluesclues in post Re: Husband won't forgive me
...ad on. Bibi1031 Bluesclues I see valid points i...
10:21 AM - camerashy mentioned Bluesclues in post Re: Husband won't forgive me
...eating. 225985 Bluesclues I'm not trying to mi...
05-01-2016
10:06 PM - MattMatt mentioned Bluesclues in post Re: How Can I Convince My Wife That I'm Not Still Cheating On Her ?
...u aren't it yet. Bluesclues The OP isn't your s...
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12-10-2019
01:12 PM - Bluesclues quoted jimjon in post Hello everyone jim here going through though times.
I will seat down with her i...
12-03-2019
02:03 PM - emcsquared quoted Bluesclues in post Re: Encouraging Growth & Save a Marriage
Maybe it is something about YOU...
01:46 PM - Bluesclues quoted emcsquared in post Encouraging Growth & Save a Marriage
I’m not going to leave my...
11-30-2019
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11-19-2019
09:12 PM - Bluesclues quoted MattMatt in post New user name?
Should I change my user name ...
09:12 PM - Bluesclues quoted Faithful Wife in post New user name?
...ame? An anagram of Faithful Wife is Fifi Hula Weft. ...
09:07 PM - Bluesclues quoted SadSamIAm in post Should I tell my husband the truth about my past
I think her husband did make i...
11-15-2019
09:38 PM - Bluesclues quoted arbitrator in post Unpopular foods you love
Not any more, but when I was a ...
11-05-2019
11:33 AM - Bluesclues quoted Daisy12 in post
10-26-2019
07:22 AM - Bluesclues quoted notmyjamie in post Have you ever watched the above movie or not?
No. Dead Again. Yes. Loved i...
10-24-2019
08:50 PM - Bluesclues quoted Girl_power in post Men do you do most of the actions when love making?
I think you need to turn 90 deg...
08:50 PM - Bluesclues quoted CharlieParker in post Men do you do most of the actions when love making?
I think you need to turn 90 degree...
10-23-2019
02:26 PM - EleGirl quoted Bluesclues in post Re: Do you know how to spell your child’s name?
I don’t know if he still ...
02:22 PM - 2ntnuf quoted Bluesclues in post Re: Controversial Topic: Women's Satisfaction
I don’t know if this will make ...
06:44 AM - Bluesclues quoted EleGirl in post Do you know how to spell your child’s name?
Bluesclues Is your ex dysle...
10-22-2019
04:42 PM - Bluesclues quoted 2ntnuf in post Controversial Topic: Women's Satisfaction
The question is, how can a ...
10-08-2019
07:40 PM - Married but Happy quoted Bluesclues in post Re: Wife Never Initiates but Accommodates
My husband has expressed that e...
07:03 PM - Bluesclues quoted lifeistooshort in post Wife Never Initiates but Accommodates
To me there's nothing like a guy wh...
 
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