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  • About Young at Heart
    I am a:
    Male
    Relationship Status
    Marriage
    Length of time in current relationship:
    40-50 yrs.
    Sexual Orientation
    Heterosexual
    Biography
    I married my college sweetheart. We have two grown adult children on their own. For a while we drifted apart and hurt each other without knowing it. This progressed into a Sex Starved Marriage, where we seldom had sex but ultimately we liked each other. I got fed up and started to read relationship books and change myself (lost weight, got in shape and got into hobbies that made me happy).

    I learned through Chapman's 5 Language of Love that I have been telling my wife that I loved her each day, but she could not understand my love languages. I learned she has been telling me each day that she loved me, but not in my love languages.

    I learned from Glover's No More Mr. Nice Guy, that I had to Get a Life and learn to become a man and not a covert contract pleaser. I also learned from MW Davis book the Sex Starved Marriage that I needed to do 180's to change the way my wife interacted with me.

    I put it all together and focused on providing her unconditional love, but as a non-codependent man. She saw the change and so I suggested marriage counseling with a noted national sex therapist. Within 5 months the therapist declared our marriage healed. That was about 4 years ago. There still are rough spots, but our marriage is so much better, not perfect, but more than I had dared dream for in the darkest hours of the SSM.

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  • Join Date: 01-06-2015

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02-19-2020
08:38 AM - Lila mentioned Young at Heart in post Limits of Honesty and Vulnerability
...also a great help. Young at Heart i moved your respons...
02-10-2020
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09-18-2019
09:58 AM - badsanta mentioned Young at Heart in post Re: LD Wives that get upset about a HD husband's self pleasure??
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06-26-2019
04:44 AM - In Absentia mentioned Young at Heart in post Re: Advice for A Marriage Without Intimacy
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03-31-2019
08:53 PM - MattMatt mentioned Young at Heart in post Re: Condom Size
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01-09-2019
10:21 AM - Ursula mentioned Young at Heart in post Re: Mama Drama
...ially brought up by Young at Heart. I feel badly when I...
12-21-2018
05:02 PM - Ursula mentioned Young at Heart in post Re: Mama Drama
Young at Heart, I KNOW that I'm par...
05-07-2018
06:32 PM - Cynthia mentioned Young at Heart in post Re: Her dad doesnít like me I donít know why
... I also agree with Young at Heart about your approach ...
12-04-2017
03:50 PM - Windwalker mentioned Young at Heart in post Re: How long is the road to recovery?
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11-23-2017
12:13 AM - sokillme mentioned Young at Heart in post Re: New and need help on so many levels
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10-16-2017
06:01 PM - Lila mentioned Young at Heart in post Re: Sex Therapy - How was it for you?
... at, at present. Young at Heart has some excellent p...
10-11-2017
10:12 PM - FrenchFry mentioned Young at Heart in post Re: Minimizing bad sex
...how I know. :) Young at Heart the "best sex" is...
09-22-2017
04:30 PM - Satya mentioned Young at Heart in post Re: Medically instructed downtime
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05-09-2017
09:51 PM - Personal mentioned Young at Heart in post Re: I think that I am being paranoid from reading TAM......or not
Young at Heart I've been there done...
04-19-2017
01:26 AM - Anon Pink mentioned Young at Heart in post Re: Ladies, must your brain be turned off to be multi-Orgasmic?
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04-17-2017
02:46 PM - Holdingontoit mentioned Young at Heart in post Re: what do I do?
Listen to Young at Heart. Stop showing your ...
03-14-2017
07:06 PM - peacem mentioned Young at Heart in post Re: Do any men NOT enjoy facials, anal and cum shots?
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02-25-2017
01:21 PM - SimplyAmorous mentioned Young at Heart in post Re: Unhappy answers about desire
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02-14-2017
09:43 PM - katiecrna mentioned Young at Heart in post Re: Dying for a good sex life
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06:37 PM - katiecrna mentioned Young at Heart in post Re: Dying for a good sex life
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02-25-2020
02:52 PM - Marduk quoted Young at Heart in post Re: Sexless marriage after 11 years
The ST asked my wife if she had eve...
02-24-2020
04:51 PM - Young at Heart quoted Billy21blue in post Re: Sexless marriage after 11 years
Had a chat tonight. She cross wi...
02-21-2020
05:32 PM - MattMatt quoted Young at Heart in post Re: Iím the worst
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05:18 PM - Young at Heart quoted Saibasu in post Re: Iím the worst
Don't act like you didn't se...
05:09 PM - Young at Heart quoted Middle of Everything in post Re: What is something socially acceptable to do as a woman not as a man?
Beat me to being a smart ass. I was go...
05:04 PM - Young at Heart quoted lifeistooshort in post Re: What is something socially acceptable to do as a woman not as a man?
Wear a dress? Kilts are becoming...
05:02 PM - Young at Heart quoted Sue4473 in post Re: For the Men-
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02-19-2020
08:38 AM - Lila quoted Young at Heart in post Limits of Honesty and Vulnerability
...also a great help. Young at Heart i moved your respons...
02:51 AM - AandM quoted Young at Heart in post Re: infidelity-older-couples
An interesting story about rising i...
02:38 AM - Young at Heart quoted Lila in post Re: Question About Size
Absolutely but things can...
02-18-2020
07:59 PM - Sfort quoted Young at Heart in post Re: Why are men so fragile?
As a man over 70, I will provide a ...
04:39 PM - Mr The Other quoted Young at Heart in post Re: Why are men so fragile?
As a man over 70, I will provide a ...
03:35 PM - Faithful Wife quoted Young at Heart in post Why are men so fragile?
As a man over 70, I will provide a ...
02-14-2020
06:21 PM - Young at Heart quoted Mrcqiw83 in post Re: Not feeling sexy
Weíve been together for 5 yea...
02-13-2020
05:48 PM - Young at Heart quoted Sfort in post Re: Question About Size
I just heard that three ou...
05:38 PM - Young at Heart quoted Sfort in post
02-11-2020
04:53 PM - Young at Heart quoted NextTimeAround in post Re: My husbad is shy about his body.......
I'm starting to swim with some regu...
04:29 PM - notmyjamie quoted Young at Heart in post Re: How many women will never ever perform oral sex on a man, why?
You need to understand that my wife...
02:51 PM - Young at Heart quoted PieceOfSky in post Re: How many women will never ever perform oral sex on a man, why?
I find that sad. She clearly wa...
02:51 PM - Young at Heart quoted notmyjamie in post Re: How many women will never ever perform oral sex on a man, why?
I find that sad. She clearly wa...
 
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