Re: Girl I Am Compatible With is a 5...Worth it?
I have a different take on this.
I also like beautiful women. I want one that I love to look at. Most importantly, one that I like looking st in the morning in bed with no makeup.
I have found that when you find the right one and they have the right looks for you (good enough, not necessarily a "ten"), once you start liking them as a person and fall in love with them, they suddenly are a ten in my eyes.
I know my gf is not a ten yo some people, nor my ex wife-- but when I'm in love with them, they are gorgeous. I can't get enough of each imperfect part.
My gf has actually gotten prettier to me. Much prettier. Although I thought even before I loved her that she was very attractive.
My ex wife has been knocked back down to her reality level of a 5. When we were married, I really felt she was an 8-10, according to what day it was. She wAs always a ten when she doctored on my kids injuries, or cooked supper, or gave me great, passionate sex.
It's not all about how they look, there's a lot to it that depends on how you feel about them.
If you really like her and still think she's only a five--- move on. Or, keep her because you're shallow and she's as good as you'll likely ever do. I don't know which. Really.