Re: Girl I Am Compatible With is a 5...Worth it?
You were being honest calling it whatever the heck you want. You assigned a number; how else could you explain?
She's a 5, you're wanting more than a 5. It's simple, you keep looking. If she is a 10 on the personality and temperament, you might rethink her 5 on the looks.
Here's MY thinking, doesn't have to be yours. IF I found a woman that was a "10" on character, personality, temperament, intelligence; and she was a 5 on looks.................... I'd average that crap out to be a 7.5 and giver her 2 points for being a helluva catch and round it to a 10. A ten on what I mentioned------- geez. That's a freaking unicorn! I don't care if the unicorn's horn isn't quite as long as I hoped, or the fur the wrong color. It's a unicorn. And I'd want to make it my unicorn.
I guess what I've determined is that I am a score average-er, biased toward the character and personality/intelligence.
There isn't a dang thing wrong with you making the call that she's not attractive enough for you. It's YOUR life, why should you give a crap if someone calls you shallow, etc. They don't have to marry the "5", LOL.
Carry on. I'm not offended at all by your description. You're just trying to communicate. If someone wants to judge you harshly, let them. Who cares. It's an internet nobody, just like me.