Perhaps you could list the benefits for woman? You see, for women there are plenty of negatives.
As Lilith, I can list them:
Having a voice and having no ear to listen to my words.
Having no one to listen to my fears.
Having no one to listen to my fears and acknowledge their worth, these my fears.
Having no one to prevent these fears from happening.
Having no shoulder to cry on.
Only having criticism as my comforting deliverance, my fate.
Not allowed to have a voice, when that voice spells trouble or concern.
Not having a man, to hold, to caress, to hold me in return.
Him holding me, rocking in me..after he has sent, spent his desire in me.
Oh, God, mine never realized.
When I am confronted and disrespected, him not behind me, him looking away.
Away at something, totally disengaged, totally out of tune to my needs, my troubles.
My loving eyes, never seen, never noticed. When he looks at me, he looks through me.
Him never seeing me, only seeing himself, seeing his troubles, apart from our common needs.
When I hold him close, he is not near. He is somewhere, not with me.
He is with me, on my spot in life, until he gets off, then he goes his own way.
When I go out of my way to do a favor, the favor is ignored, never thanked.
Now, the favor is ever expected. Me setting the precedence, him not the reciprocal.
I love him with all my heart. I will do so.
Do so until, none remains, then I wil do the "Walk away Wife" dance, not a prance.
Heartspent, dejected, I as a wife have no desire to Prance.
Walking and crying take up all my verdure to endure.
By Lilith, the secretary, with one man under her belt. And he, a bad one, indeed.