Re: I donít understand men
Men usually do exactly what they want to do, and women make it more complicated.
If a man wants to spend time with you, he'll ask.
If he wants to have sex with you, he'll ask.
If he wants a relationship with you, he'll ask.
If he wants to marry you, he'll ask.
So, the person to be in charge of is you.
You're plugging along, creating a great life for yourself, and all you have to do is respond to his interest in a way that aligns with your values and standards.
If you find yourself trying to sort him out or manipulate situations in order to get specific outcomes, then his genuine interest probably isn't part of the equation.