My husband has never given me oral sex. I miss it so much! My XH loved it and was great at it. Current hubby had a few gross experiences and then one really bad one, and has never done it since. I know if I pushed it, he would do it. I would never be able to relax and enjoy it, knowing he probably was hating it. We have extremely open conversations about everything, so we both understand where the other is coming from.
I donít think itís fair that I donít get oral because some skanks he dated in the past had bad hygiene. It annoys me. Itís the way it is though, and I chose to accept that! I have recently stopped handing out bjs left and right. Itís hard because I really love his dong and I truly enjoying slurping on it. Iíve started holding off on them because our sex life is improving and I hope that soon he will miss them, and we will have a discussion about oral again. I want him to try it from the side, and of course me fresh out of a scorching shower. Maybe he will see it is not a big deal, and not what he remembers. Or maybe he will still hate it. Who knows.
I agree with everyone else. Tastes arenít likely to change. Itís highly doubtful he will ever enjoy it, so I have decided to tolerate that it isnít on the menu. If he can get his other skills up to par, I wonít care as much. We shall see. Itís an interesting journey.
Iím one of the ones that knew, and chose to marry in a situation that there is a sexual mismatch. We have made progress, some really good steps actually, and I hope I will never give up. We go together like biscuits and jam. We are truly very happy together. Do I get sad sometimes that my love life isnít what I would ideally want? Yep. Iím pretty sure that since no one is perfect, we all have to give and take on getting the other person that checks every box for us. My guy checks everything else for me. I decided it was worth it, and I am still sure it is.
Now, after reading the recap of @She'sStillGotIt
on the other areas that are lacking in your relationship, only you can decide if you are okay with all of those things. Are you?