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post #16 of 35 (permalink) Old 09-23-2019, 05:39 PM Thread Starter
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AdoreMe is a great monthly subscription service. You fill out the question form and then they start sending stuff. You only keep what you like and return the rest. After a few months my wife was returning very few items as the stylist had her figured out. Well worth the money.


Is this underwear only or clothes?
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Is this underwear only or clothes?
All types of night wear / lounge wear.

If you want regular clothes you should try StichFix. They also do a really good job.
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All types of night wear / lounge wear.



If you want regular clothes you should try StichFix. They also do a really good job.


These online “personal shoppers” have become more and kore popular. Their ads keep popping up so n my Instagram.
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For an inexpensive alternative to spicier britches...

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@Girl_power the last time I tried buying my wife some sexy underwear, I did not understand the sizes and they did not fit.

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@Girl_power the last time I tried buying my wife some sexy underwear, I did not understand the sizes and they did not fit.

Rule 1 for buying your wife clothes: Go digging in her closet and check all sizes. NEVER ASK because she will just report down one size anyway and get suspicious of what your up to ....

Rule 2 : If you buy too big your faacked .....
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I have tried to buy my wife both tasteful underwear (real silk tap pants) and sexy underwear at times. No matter what, even if it was similar to something she owned, she always took offense.

One of her most memorable responses was, "You didn't marry a sl#t, don't expect me to dress like one." I will never buy her any under garments again, even if she asked. That boat has sailed.
Ha! My wife has said the exact same thing.

Over the years I have been able to gradually nudge her much closer to what I was hoping for.

I had fantasized about thongs but she would have none of it. I did some research and I found some top rated sexy undies made by Hanky Panky that she found comfortable to wear and I found tantalizing to see her wear them.

When menopause hit she began feeling hot and disliked the warm and constricted feeling of pajamas in bed. That has opened up the door for a lot of sexy tank tops and baby doll style nighties as long as they are cotton or have a mostly cotton feel.

But what really finally all this to happen was when we became empty nesters 4 years ago. However, with all this being said, there are a bunch of fun things I bought for my wife over the past few years that she simply refuses to wear.

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Ha! My wife has said the exact same thing.

Over the years I have been able to gradually nudge her much closer to what I was hoping for.

........there are a bunch of fun things I bought for my wife over the past few years that she simply refuses to wear.
Yes, empty nesting helped a bit, but still she doesn't like to wear any sexy underwear, even if it is just for me. Lots of body self-image issues. I have never not complemented her on how beautify she is to me, but that doesn't seem to matter.

Glad to hear someone has made progress. Good luck to you.
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I spice up my underwear when I eat taco bell.

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At my age and advanced state of deterioration, and just knowing the women within my age genre, the shipping charge on those panties, alone, would cost a small fortune, much like shipping an army tent with three big holes in them!
Even so, you would still need to supply the tent pole!

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Even so, you would still need to supply the tent pole!
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There is no way he would even consider getting lingerie or underwear for me. I have puchased lingerie and attempted to wear it for him and he doesnt like lingerie or never payed attention. Even have the stripper shoes. Some I have still with tags on them.

As far as underwear I like sexy underwear he could have cared less that is more about how I feel and what I prefer to wear.
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There is no way he would even consider getting lingerie or underwear for me. I have puchased lingerie and attempted to wear it for him and he doesnt like lingerie or never payed attention. Even have the stripper shoes. Some I have still with tags on them.

As far as underwear I like sexy underwear he could have cared less that is more about how I feel and what I prefer to wear.


If you came out wearing sexy lingerie he wouldn’t get turned on and want to jump your bones?
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I used to buy lingerie for her years ago from time to time. She would wear each gift once - mostly as a "mercy" use, it seems. Then I would never see them again. If I didn't know better, I could be convinced that lingerie is disposable and good for only one use. After about a decade of trying different styles in lingerie gifts, I finally gave up. Got tired of spending $75 or $100 on nice items that never saw the light of day more than once.

Came to realize they were "gifts for me" rather than "gifts for her." Intellectually, I get it. Emotionally, still disappointing.
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I used to buy lingerie for her years ago from time to time. She would wear each gift once - mostly as a "mercy" use, it seems. Then I would never see them again. If I didn't know better, I could be convinced that lingerie is disposable and good for only one use. After about a decade of trying different styles in lingerie gifts, I finally gave up. Got tired of spending $75 or $100 on nice items that never saw the light of day more than once.



Came to realize they were "gifts for me" rather than "gifts for her." Intellectually, I get it. Emotionally, still disappointing.


I get that. Most women are particular with what they want to wear and what their specific body looks good in and what their comfortable in, so I always prefer to buy my own lingerie.
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