Re: Spice up underwear
I used to buy lingerie for her years ago from time to time. She would wear each gift once - mostly as a "mercy" use, it seems. Then I would never see them again. If I didn't know better, I could be convinced that lingerie is disposable and good for only one use. After about a decade of trying different styles in lingerie gifts, I finally gave up. Got tired of spending $75 or $100 on nice items that never saw the light of day more than once.
Came to realize they were "gifts for me" rather than "gifts for her." Intellectually, I get it. Emotionally, still disappointing.