Re: Belly Full, Empty Balls Rule
It just not enough for me either, l still have to like her and want to be desired by her. But she would still expect the same in return. But as time changes for me because of my emotions, if she's not interested much then as all things considered comes to the fact that she just not that into me. And given some time l will make a decision for my part of the relationship.
The full belly and empty balls, just is meaningless if their is no love and attraction. The relationship is dead, and would rather live by myself than be tormented by the thought of a desire to be desired. That is meaningless to my wife and not return in the same manner.
I also need my wife to be individual, in the ways she will let herself be. To add value to my life and appreciate the compromise's l have gave for the family, but l must also value her for all the compromise's she gave.
If your not the object of your lovers heart, then your just an object.
If you think the grass is greener on the otherside it's not, what you see are the weeds.