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post #16 of 71 (permalink) Old 10-13-2018, 04:41 PM
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Welcome to TAM. It was odd to see the opening post as a way of introduction,but to each his own.

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Hello, from both Wesley and Kelly.

Please, no reason for name calling. We are both educated professionals with meaningful lives. I just happen to enjoy keeping my body in top condition through exercise and nutrition with the challenge of competing against other like minded females
This is all well and good,but the OP seemed to focus more on your being flirty and as your husband stated,an exhibitionist. Not that I find that wrong in any way,but I'm just curious if it has caused you any problems,such as unwanted attention,that you had a hard time to deal with.


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Could you give us more detail about your social lives? Do you have one or more circle of friends that you see about twice a month or more?

Does your wife have female friends?
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From Kelly. Yes my husband and I have numerous friends along with myself having female friends. You guys are a rough crowd
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From Kelly. Yes my husband and I have numerous friends along with myself having female friends. You guys are a rough crowd
You are talking to a crowd that does not get any value out being an attention ***** or being with an attention *****.


you need to know your market.
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You are talking to a crowd that does not get any value out being an attention ***** or being with an attention *****.

you need to know your market.
Is this any way to treat a new member?

I think it bothers them the all the collage friends told him not to marry her because she was too flirty.

If she is hot and she likes to compete, why would anyone care. I just don't they should care what friends think.
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First of all, I like to state I love my wife and her and I are happily married.

My wife, (Kelly), and I meet in college and I was drawn to her outgoing vibrant flirting personality and her fantastic body, blonde hair, and cute face.

My male friends kept forewarning me, Kelly is not the type girl I should date and heaven forbid marry due to her being too much of a flirt, having dated too many guys, and showing off her body too much.

Kelly and I married for who we each are, not to try to make changes in each other.

Of my male college friends who were wrong in telling me not to marry Kelly, are either divorced or unhappily married, whereas Kelly and I are very much in love and happily married.

To this day Kelly is very much of a flirt with men and that is just an extension of who she is as a person, vibrant and fun loving, all of which I fully accept.

Both Kelly and I, keep in shape with her being in fantastic shape. My wife's hobby and passion is to enter one or two bikini contest a year to show off her dedication to working out, nutrition, and fantastic physical attributes.

Are my wife's bikinis skimpy and revealing? Yes, very much so, from thongs that place her rear on public display to the tops that barely cover her boobs. But the bottom line her and I are very happy together and have left my negative college buddies to wallow in their disappointing marriages or state of divorce.

The fitness center my wife and I are members have a large poster on display of my wife in a bikini from her most recent contest she had won. Once again, the bikini reveals just about all of my wife's physical attributes and beauty......Yes but it also shows her hard work in training and nutrition and motivational for members of the club.

So after years of marriage, I love my flirty and exhibitionist wife and would not change on thing about her.

I would like to hear insights and feedback from other married couples with a wife thats tends to flirt and if it is a positive or negative.

Thanks from Wesley and Kelly
I think that is fantastic. However your wife does her flirting, it clearly is not making you feel threatened like she is liable to cheat given the chance. It sounds like she's probably an open, friendly, warm, social person. And not doing anything that would make you feel insecure about her dedication to you.

I would be very interested to hear some examples of her flirting. What might she say or do that you consider flirting?

As for her good looks and great body - it sounds like she takes very good care of herself and likes showing off the results of her hard work. As long as you are feeling proud like "Yeah, that's my woman!" and not like she's trying to get attention from men because she's not fulfilled in her marriage, I think it's great. It sounds like her staying in good shape is something she works at for both of you.
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The fitness center my wife and I are members have a large poster on display of my wife in a bikini from her most recent contest she had won. Once again, the bikini reveals just about all of my wife's physical attributes and beauty......



Thanks from Wesley and Kelly

Where can I join this fitness centre? I would like to see this poster as itís not so clear how revealing it is. Iím all for health & fitness, whether itís revealing or not.
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This couple appears to be honest and upfront with each other, they are still in love with one another and are both happy. I am assuming that Kelly knows her boundaries and Wesley is good with that...so why are we not happy for them...marriages come in all shape and sizes.....it has never has been a one size fits all institution, what works for Wesley and Kelly may not work for others, but that is not our place to decide...not sure how long you both have been married but i hope you don't lose that spark that keeps that flame alive between you two.
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Hello, from both Kelly and Wesley.

Just an attempt to clarify. The initial post was just a reflection back to the negative opinions of my college buddies back in the day pertaining to Kelly not being worthy of marriage, yet these college buddies are now either divovced, or complain about their marriage, and / or the wife letting themselves go and out of shape. Of these so called college buddies I am the only one very happily married.

Kelly and I know our boudaries and extremely respectful of each other, in no way am I threatening by her flirting, it is as I said before just a natural extension of her out going enthusiastic personality.

An in shape well defined human body is in my mind is a sight of beauty, therefore even if Kelly is in a skimpy bikini it should not be body shame or produce name calling.

Hopefully this helps explain our prospective a bit better. From Kelly and Wesley and very happily married couple.
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Hello, from both Kelly and Wesley.



Just an attempt to clarify. The initial post was just a reflection back to the negative opinions of my college buddies back in the day pertaining to Kelly not being worthy of marriage, yet these college buddies are now either divovced, or complain about their marriage, and / or the wife letting themselves go and out of shape. Of these so called college buddies I am the only one very happily married.



Kelly and I know our boudaries and extremely respectful of each other, in no way am I threatening by her flirting, it is as I said before just a natural extension of her out going enthusiastic personality.



An in shape well defined human body is in my mind is a sight of beauty, therefore even if Kelly is in a skimpy bikini it should not be body shame or produce name calling.



Hopefully this helps explain our prospective a bit better. From Kelly and Wesley and very happily married couple.

Do you by chance have a post on another web site forum about having children by some other man of a different race?

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Hello, from both Wesley and Kelly.

Please, no reason for name calling. We are both educated professionals with meaningful lives. I just happen to enjoy keeping my body in top condition through exercise and nutrition with the challenge of competing against other like minded females
First, using your real names might not be the best idea.

Second, do you ever consider how other women may feel about you flirting it up with their husbands?
Or are you one of those who thinks they ought to be able to hack it it and "it's not my fault their husbands like my rack"
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From Kelly. Yes my husband and I have numerous friends along with myself having female friends. You guys are a rough crowd
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