It should start there....he shouldn't have to 'fight' to be an equal parent.
Just my opinion.
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Exactly what I was going to say. You wanted children with this man. You had children with this man. That must mean that you thought he would be a good father. He is their father, he should get equal time.
It's time for you to start figuring out HOW you are going to be a single mom. You've got to let him go, and worry about you and your kids. He is not going to pay your mortgage for long. You have to figure out what you are going to do to move on without him.