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What should I do during seperation
Ok me and my wife have seperated and she said she was done. But she says she needs space. She says we are on 2 different paths right now. Iv e started counseling for myself. Even though I live in apartment we share our checks and Bill's in the same account. I'm letting her use my vehicle with my step kids cause it's in my name and she doesn't have one to go back and forth to work. I gave her pretty much everything in the house. I've been considerate and trying to be patient and understanding. But she is so cold in her response to me. She talks more like I'm a client instead of a husband. In about 12 days it will be a month of separation. Divorce was only used one time that's the day we fought. When we meet one night to talk. She said it had only been 2 weeks and if I'm expecting any hope right now the answer would be no. But again she emphasized again she needs space. She is in stressed at work feels like she is the one doing everything in the relationship. I asked if there is anyone else and she said no. I dont have time for anyone right now nor do I want anyone. So I'm giving her space, the other day the only reason she texted me was to get the account for Netflix because my son signed out of it. She said I didn't have to but I did. So is my marriage over. Because of the distance and the coldness she responds with, or what. I even tried to get the kids to do something with me this weekend but she said they have plans. But my daughter said she didn't know anything about anything. So is it over? I mean when do I pull the plug on the bank account and so on. I mean I made mistakes but not to the extreme of her treating me this way, like I didn't exist. I've always bent over backwards. I've been praying and working on me that's all I can do. How do I know if their is hope still. I am the main bread winner in the house. Combine over $100,000 a year with $75,000 of mine. She has 4 kids they are all step kids but I've spent 10 yrs of my life with them. So I claim them as mine. It's hard dealing with the emotional roller coaster and loneliness. But we are still functioning the same as if I was in the house. Meaning using the bank and such. But she has been very cold. She is a person who can cut you off just like that. When shes done she's done. But I'm confused. You want space, your using the vehicle that I said you could use, as for how long u need because of the kids, and we still have our checks in the same account and use them. But your very short and cold with no emotion when ever you do talk to me. So again is it over, is it just space and longer she is needing or do I start taking things away, such as the bank and vehicle. Cause I'm at limbo. I want to save my marriage at all possible. But dont know what to do? And dont know her expectations
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What should I do during seperation
Ok me and my wife have seperated and she said she was done. But she says she needs space. She says we are on 2 different paths right now. Iv e started counseling for myself. Even though I live in apartment we share our checks and Bill's in the same account. I'm letting her use my vehicle with my step kids cause it's in my name and she doesn't have one to go back and forth to work. I gave her pretty much everything in the house. I've been considerate and trying to be patient and understanding. But she is so cold in her response to me. She talks more like I'm a client instead of a husband. In about 12 days it will be a month of separation. Divorce was only used one time that's the day we fought. When we meet one night to talk. She said it had only been 2 weeks and if I'm expecting any hope right now the answer would be no. But again she emphasized again she needs space. She is in stressed at work feels like she is the one doing everything in the relationship. I asked if there is anyone else and she said no. I dont have time for anyone right now nor do I want anyone. So I'm giving her space, the other day the only reason she texted me was to get the account for Netflix because my son signed out of it. She said I didn't have to but I did. So is my marriage over. Because of the distance and the coldness she responds with, or what. I even tried to get the kids to do something with me this weekend but she said they have plans. But my daughter said she didn't know anything about anything. So is it over? I mean when do I pull the plug on the bank account and so on. I mean I made mistakes but not to the extreme of her treating me this way, like I didn't exist. I've always bent over backwards. I've been praying and working on me that's all I can do. How do I know if their is hope still. I am the main bread winner in the house. Combine over $100,000 a year with $75,000 of mine. She has 4 kids they are all step kids but I've spent 10 yrs of my life with them. So I claim them as mine. It's hard dealing with the emotional roller coaster and loneliness. But we are still functioning the same as if I was in the house. Meaning using the bank and such. But she has been very cold. She is a person who can cut you off just like that. When shes done she's done. But I'm confused. You want space, your using the vehicle that I said you could use, as for how long u need because of the kids, and we still have our checks in the same account and use them. But your very short and cold with no emotion when ever you do talk to me. So again is it over, is it just space and longer she is needing or do I start taking things away, such as the bank and vehicle. Cause I'm at limbo. I want to save my marriage at all possible. But dont know what to do? And dont know her expectations