Re: husband addicted to spying
Yes, what would you possibly be saying to friends and family that could not be heard? A marriage is much more than a relationship. Your private life is inclusive of him. Now you can go out with your girlfriends and visit your family, but if there is secrecy, there will be jealousy. That choice is yours. Do you want jealousy, or do you want to remove jealousy? Curiosity killed the cat. Why do you think that phrase exists???
And by the way, no matter what you think, anything you put on the internet is no longer private. I don’t care if you have it safeguarded with passwords etc. It is no longer private domain. And is open to be public knowledge. If there is something you don’t want the rest of the world to see, including your hubby. DON’T PUT IT ON THE INTERNET!!!
Now, if he has an “addiction” to spying, then instead of focusing on the negative aspects of it, and having it be a source of fights… Turn it into something fun and sexy. Maybe have him spy on you in the shower, or through the window. Enjoy what you can in your relationship, and don’t allow petty things to get in the way of a lifetime of happiness. Sometimes we are our own worst enemies.