If a female member poster a similarly insulting post about men, she would be castegated. You are appearently able to live this emotionally transient life, because sex is the most important thing in your life. You view women as interchangable sex objects not whole people.
I read this a lot to encourage men to D. Maybe I know only loser D men but I don't think they would agree with you.
I'm sure there is easy sex if you hang out at bars often enough to get lucky or a sure bet hire a prostitute/call girl or if they are really lucky, pick up a women who needs money and a place to live.
What you are saying is terrible and confirms the notion that men only care about sex. Words are powerful, women hear. There is a basis for a wife believing this about her husband.
We like to ignore that and blame the whole concept on women. There are apparently some men who are this way and they are married at some point.
It is possible that sex problems in marriage are not about sex only and may be due to the man and woman. D will not solve relationship problems. Women can't be picked out like a pair of socks.
You have to relate to them like human beings and they don't just give because you want, you have to give as much.
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To be fair, when men post such a post they are usually castigated by some, not all. When women post the equivalent, they are castigated by some, but not all. I have posted where is seems most of what I write is caveats and then told off for making a generalization.
While he may have written crudely, I did not get the impression that he was writing about women generally, but only some. There are plenty of manipulative people out there, men and women, who have to play games to make the world fit to their inner screw-ups.
Whoever is the least needy regarding any aspect of a relationship has the most power. In a healthy relationship, there is not power struggle, so this does not matter. When people are obsessed with their own weakness, it comes out. It might be that men try and control my dictating rules and financial control, women would perhaps use sex and their husbands need for that. This does not relate to men or women, but to people acting in such a manner.
I do not believe the post was intended in the way you read it (I could well be wrong). I tend to hesitate on giving advice on relationships with men as I have never had a relationship with a man. However, I am very wise on relationships with women as I have made loads and loads of stupid mistakes (irony fully intended). I think the post was coming from the same perspective.
Otherwise, we do have plenty of posters who believe that problems in relationships are always the fault of the other sex. We also have some men who believe that they can master relationships and control them so they always work, which is also a little unhealthy.