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post #106 of 109 (permalink) Old 07-08-2019, 12:22 PM
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Re: Sexual compatibility

Since this is NOT a religious thread, I will say to the OP that regardless of the whole "You should WANT to so your spouse will be happy," the bottom line is that if something makes YOU unhappy or uncomfortable, HE should not be demanding it. It cuts both ways.

These things tend to always go the same way when it is a woman who feels uncomfortable doing something in bed. I am pretty adventurous, but I am not an at-will sex doll. I am a human. Thank God my hubby understands that.

I'm sorry you are having to deal with all these things.
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Cletus, God was there but you didn't look or listen hard enough to find him.
Oh, pooh. I cleaned a bunch of dust bunnies from under the bed, but Jesus was nowhere to be found. He's really REALLY good at hide and seek.
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Ok, so God doesn't exist and hubby should just sew his wild oats in whatever manner he please? Is that what the non-believers argue for?

So nothing is sacred?.. certainly not marriage or marital sexuality.

Insult me and my religion all you want. I'm glad I believe differently. Porn is destroying marriages everywhere. That's proven in this thread, proven statistically, and proven in the marriages of people I know personally. But y'all can keep your disgusting porn habits (Cletus, Mr.Married, Yeti, etc). Just keep defending it via jokes, insults, and "statistics". How did men get so lost that a nasty habit could become so loved!!

You guys ought to be ashamed. Your fathers and grandfathers would be.
Not sure where you get the idea I think I should sew those seeds where ever I want as I have never been divorced or cheated.

Sacred Marriage or marital sexuality: Not sacred as I don't apply spiritual responsibility to my marriage .... I do however apply personal responsibility.

Porn: I don't see where I have a porn habit as I'm not all that much into it and it surely hasn't had any effect on my marriage.


Seems my personal beliefs have served my marriage quite well. I have no reason to believe anyone I know, grandfather or otherwise would be disappointed in that.

You talk about porn so much in your post it seems your the one with the porn issue not that I'm saying your a user.

As this thread is about sexual compatibility, I don't see where my belief or nonbelief has caused any issue sexual or marital within my wife and I compatibility.

The difference between you and @Diana7 is that she isn't trying so hard to jam it down others throat. I'm more into letting people believe whatever they want. I'll leave the "you must only believe this" to the politicians and religious.

A bit of tolerance for others beliefs is a good thing.

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A bit of tolerance for others beliefs is a good thing.
I see you brought a knife to a gun fight.
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