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post #16 of 104 (permalink) Old 08-13-2019, 11:28 PM Thread Starter
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But there are a lot of college students who finish college as virgins or only 1-2 partners. A lot of the “hooking up” at college is kissing or oral sex.
But what are you comparing "a lot" to? One thousand is a lot. But there are well over 500k female college graduates each year (contemporary figures). What is considered to be a lot of them?
“Fifteen years of data, friends, tells us that about three-quarters of college students report either no sex partner — oral, vaginal, or anal —or just one sex partner in the last year.

“And, on average, about 9% of college students report having 4 or more partners — oral, vaginal, or anal — in the last year.”

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College Students Are Not Having Nearly as Much Sex as Everyone Thinks They Are

A new survey finds that nearly 40 percent are virgins.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.cos...e-virgin-poll/
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Young women are becoming more promiscuous, with more sexual partners than men, researchers have found.

By the age of 21 they have had sex with an average of nine lovers - two more than their male partner.

And a quarter have slept with more than ten partners in the five years since losing their virginity - compared with a fifth of young men.

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Young women are also twice as likely to be unfaithful, with 50 per cent admitting they have cheated on a partner - half at least twice.

Yet if their man was caught being unfaithful, 99 per cent of the 2,000 women surveyed said they would show him the door.

The sex survey, for More magazine, also found women crave more sex but still believe men enjoy it more than they do.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/a...new-study.html

I seriously doubt it.

Girls were pretty promiscuous when I was growing up, and from what Iíve read - and been told by a few young people - is that a lot of people arenít bothering to have sex or pursue relationships at all.

Even if they are, I wouldnít trust the daily mail to get my ass clean if I wiped with it.
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Young women are becoming more promiscuous, with more sexual partners than men, researchers have found.

By the age of 21 they have had sex with an average of nine lovers - two more than their male partner.

And a quarter have slept with more than ten partners in the five years since losing their virginity - compared with a fifth of young men.

* * *

Young women are also twice as likely to be unfaithful, with 50 per cent admitting they have cheated on a partner - half at least twice.

Yet if their man was caught being unfaithful, 99 per cent of the 2,000 women surveyed said they would show him the door.

The sex survey, for More magazine, also found women crave more sex but still believe men enjoy it more than they do.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/a...new-study.html

I seriously doubt it.

Girls were pretty promiscuous when I was growing up, and from what I’ve read - and been told by a few young people - is that a lot of people aren’t bothering to have sex or pursue relationships at all.

Even if they are, I wouldn’t trust the daily mail to get my ass clean if I wiped with it.
I didn’t really want a girlfriend until I’d finished my education and got my career started. I didn’t know where I’d end up having my career, and I didn’t want to look for a woman until I knew my career value and felt comfortable. I was worried that I would marry my first girlfriend, which I did.

Rightly or wrongly, this thinking is far more common today than it was 20-30 years ago.
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Not sure why it matters either as long as the people having sex are doing so because they want to, not because they are pressured into it.
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Oh snap, that was a DailyMail survey report???
hahaha no wonder the figures were so far off from other such surveys.

I still believe what I stated though. It's not hard to believe women have as many as 9 or 10 partners by age 21. Not these days.
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Well I guess it's a good thing people aren't getting married much.

Whenever you think about taking a cheater back remember that
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I donít buy it, either. The average woman has intercourse with 9 guys by 21?
That particular claim might be a little high for an average, maybe not. I'm definitely not buying the rest of what was said.
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ďThe survey follows a U.S. study earlier this year that found teenage girls who watch a lot of TV shows with a high sexual content, such as Friends and Sex And The City, are twice as likely to become pregnant.Ē

Thatís why I put condoms on ALL our tv devices now. Those pesky shows are not getting wifey pregnant ever again!




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I donít buy it, either. The average woman has intercourse with 9 guys by 21?

At the same time, or do the guys take turns?

I am totally forwarding all this to all the school WhatsApp groups and freakedoutmums.com


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“The three-date rule is becoming a thing of the past -- women wait an average of nine dates before they have sex, while men wait an average of five

“Men are nine times more likely than women to be OK with sleeping together on the first date, but just 30 percent of men and 8 percent of women think sex should happen within the first three dates”

https://www.businesswire.com/news/ho...s-Survey-Finds

The millenials appear less sexual, not more. The same thing is going on worldwide. The Japanese talk of “grass eating men” who are celibate, watch porn and play video games.
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This notion that women are more promiscuous than men is funny when you consider the statistical implications and assume we are just talking about heterosexual encounters. If both a male and female are required for a sex act, then each new partner the female acquires means that a male also acquired a new female partner. This means both males and females by average should have the exact same number of partners.

Now if we are just looking at this by age and someone has found that young women tend to have more partners than men their same age, this only means that young women prefer older men. This also means that when these women get older, settle down and eventually become sexually inactive that their male counterpart of the same age is now out there still getting action with younger women (AKA Silver Fox).

Scientifically I would come to the conclusion that male sexuality has a much longer shelf life than female sexuality. Therefore women at the age of 21 are being pursued by a very wide range of men of all ages. Meanwhile men at 21 are only being pursued by a limited range of women their same age or younger.
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I think it means that the median woman has more partners than the median man. Some guys are nailing 100+ women. The average guy married a woman who had more partners than him.
Who are these guys nailing 100+ women? Is that per year or per month?
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I think the averages are hiding the distribution. Both as to wanting sex and to having sex.

I think there is a decent chance that a smaller number of men are having sex with many partners and a broader range of women are having sex with a smaller number of partners. I also think that men are more motivated to have sex, but this does not necessarily mean that more men are actually having sex. And I think more men than women are satisfied with the quality of the sex they have, when they do have sex.

So I think there are far more men than women who urgently want sex at any given time, but that is in part because far more women than men expect that the sex they could have without substantial risk (to themselves or their current relationship) would probably be sex that is not be worth having.

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I think it means that the median woman has more partners than the median man. Some guys are nailing 100+ women. The average guy married a woman who had more partners than him.

I tend to agree.

Also, I think the surveys must be excluding prostitutes. Remember, there are some women who are having sex with hundreds of men, because they are being paid for it.

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Who are these guys nailing 100+ women? Is that per year or per month?


Also at @NextTimeAround have you ever heard men brag about the size of the fish they recently caught?
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