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post #31 of 43 (permalink) Old 12-03-2019, 07:37 PM
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It doesn't.

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post #32 of 43 (permalink) Old 12-05-2019, 03:07 PM
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I will say it doesnt either his initiation is ignoring me, no conversations co connection. until he has the need to get off then shakes his d1(k at me and says get naked. TURN OFF. only sees me then because I am what is there.

Last time I intiated I came out with heels and lingerie walked in where he was asked if he liked the blue. I was told to move out from in front of him he was watching TV. Never again did I.
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his initiation is ignoring me, no conversations co connection. until he has the need to get off then shakes his d1(k at me and says get naked. TURN OFF. only sees me then because I am what is there.


Please tell me you turn him down when he acts like that?


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Last time I intiated I came out with heels and lingerie walked in where he was asked if he liked the blue. I was told to move out from in front of him he was watching TV. Never again did I.


Why are you still with him? Iím sorry but heís a big time jerk!
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I will say it doesnt either his initiation is ignoring me, no conversations co connection. until he has the need to get off then shakes his d1(k at me and says get naked. TURN OFF. only sees me then because I am what is there.

Last time I intiated I came out with heels and lingerie walked in where he was asked if he liked the blue. I was told to move out from in front of him he was watching TV. Never again did I.
Ugh!

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How did sex happen in my relationship with my STBXW? Apparently, every time she went to work
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post #36 of 43 (permalink) Old 12-10-2019, 09:04 AM
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That is how some sexless marriages evolve.

Yes Jerk, douche bag, prick, etc.
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Re: How does sex happen in your relationship?

Usually I initiate it. Normally I'll ask her if she wants to "go upstairs" which is our code for "do you want to make love"? We light candles and play romantic music and I take my time. I don't rush things and I make sure she is taken care off. I whisper things to compliment her because she is a little insecure of her body. It's very intense and passionate.

Why Bother-sorry your guy did that. If my wife did that (even if my favorite football team was on) I'd turn the TV off so fast I'd sprint to the bedroom! I hope things get better for you. You don't deserve the disrespect.
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post #38 of 43 (permalink) Old 12-30-2019, 02:25 PM
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Re: How does sex happen in your relationship?

In our house the word for sex is VISIT
He says "I would like to visit."
or I say " I am expecting a visit"

Questions like
"Are you staying long?"

have been asked

Not sure how that term was coined but it has always been used since long ago (14 years) That is how it usually starts and then we have names for different things that happen, but I am always the visited and he is always the visitor.
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It doesn't - if there's even a remote chance where I can initiate sex, she always ends up really tired and/or has a massive headache. Case in point - went out NYE early for dinner and met some friends out. We were getting home early as we only had the sitter until 8, but figured we could get the kids to bed early then we could go in the basement and have a couple drinks. As we're driving to dinner, she announces that she has a really bad headache (sex wasn't even mentioned - she just made sure to let me know). I almost burst out laughing as it's so predictable. Starting to think it's a habit.
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I always try and start things almost everyday for good measure that’s juts who I am . I like to flirt on the phone all day about it if I’m really feeling it . When she wants it she very straight forward and will say she wants it and to be ready .
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I will say it doesnt either his initiation is ignoring me, no conversations co connection. until he has the need to get off then shakes his d1(k at me and says get naked. TURN OFF. only sees me then because I am what is there.

Last time I intiated I came out with heels and lingerie walked in where he was asked if he liked the blue. I was told to move out from in front of him he was watching TV. Never again did I.
You're in the right. You have one of the best ways to get things started as you've described.

His failing.
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I will say it doesnt either his initiation is ignoring me, no conversations co connection. until he has the need to get off then shakes his d1(k at me and says get naked. TURN OFF. only sees me then because I am what is there.

Last time I intiated I came out with heels and lingerie walked in where he was asked if he liked the blue. I was told to move out from in front of him he was watching TV. Never again did I.
You're in the right. You have one of the best ways to get things started as you've described.

His failing.

Seriously how could your turn down your wife when she willing to throw herself at you and is in the mood . Big mistake
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I will say it doesnt either his initiation is ignoring me, no conversations co connection. until he has the need to get off then shakes his d1(k at me and says get naked. TURN OFF. only sees me then because I am what is there.

Last time I intiated I came out with heels and lingerie walked in where he was asked if he liked the blue. I was told to move out from in front of him he was watching TV. Never again did I.


Thatís when I would either file for divorce or start an affair.
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