Re: How does sex happen in your relationship?
It varies for us, no particular routine, and we both initiate although he does perhaps initiate more than I do.
It feels quite vulnerable to share this..! The unsubtle versions in the last couple of weeks... he'd returned home from doing volunteer stuff, looked scrumptious. We kissed one another, I grabbed his sexy butt then leaned down and playfully 'kissed' the front of his jeans. In response, he tilted his head back and let out an, 'mmmm, yes...' Another day, I was dancing in my sweatpants being goofy in the lounge room (not sexy, or so I thought at least), he stepped up behind me, slid his hands into the pockets of my sweatpants and used this to unexpectedly pull me back close to him, then shimmied the sweatpants off me. Different moment, I was getting dressed and wearing my cat-ears headband that I typically wear on a lazy day at home, but he liked what he saw and got me back into bed with him. I arrived home from work and was wearing a dress with slight cleavage. When he opened the door to greet me, his trailing touch followed his gaze. So, I guess moments like that happen quite regularly.
The more subtle involves caressing, light rhythmic touches, kissing, and perhaps making out... sometimes leads to sex, sometimes not... intimate and connecting nonetheless.
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