This can be answered by men who have knowledge but ladies might know more.
Can a vagina stretch longer if you're careful?
Like, let's say a woman is aroused, as lubricated as she is going to get and she is penetrated until it stops but only has an inch to go. If she is careful and on top, can she stretch a little more until she can comfortably accommodate it?
I do think ladies might know more (probably much more)!!!
I'm pretty small but i've been with some big ones. At least for me, it does stretch to fit one that's longer than the original "bottoming out", if that makes sense. I've had ones where there was more than 2 inches or so remaining after it hit "bottom" (cervix i guess). Some guys like wanted to get it all in and others just stopped where it naturally stopped.
It can be painful or at least uncomfortable with the pressure. I don't think there's much getting around that. It REALLY helps the more excited/aroused I am. That helps with the tolerance for any discomfort and makes it more flexible. Also, a slimmer penis can more easily "slip past" or flex itself but a really thick one can be more like getting punched in the stomach! Same for level of hardness i guess.
OMG I can't believe i said all of that but hope it helps!
In my wifes case, she definitely can stretch, but there are some positions that I simply have to hold back on. If she is really turned on, she actually prefers to feel the pain that comes from it while having sex, but the pain is there nonetheless.
In my wifes case, she definitely can stretch, but there are some positions that I simply have to hold back on. If she is really turned on, she actually prefers to feel the pain that comes from it while having sex, but the pain is there nonetheless.
This conversation makes me sad. Some of us just don't have the right "equipment" for this to an issue. I think TAM should ban all penis threads from this day forward, to spare the feelings of us guys that don't measure up. I will forever feel inadequate for having read this. Woe is me.
It’s not reliable though. You can’t know for sure if it will happen or even if it does happen it can stop all of a sudden too. It’s not a guarantee to use to cram more up in there.
YES during arousal the vagina does engorge and lengthen.
Where she is in her cycle also makes a difference. The cervix moves down and up during different phases of the hormone cycles. Sometimes I can handle super deep no problem, other times I am more sensitive.
Position of course makes a difference as well, I can accommodate much more length when I am on top and controlling the depth vs. getting jack hammered in doggy position for example - but again - depends on arousal level and time of the month. Sometimes jack hammering deep doggy is great (ha!)
I am not petite - I am a solid 5'6"+ and well - my vagina I would say is quite accommodating. Perhaps I haven't been with a guy that was freak show big - but I have been with some big guys and never once encountered "too big".
I have heard comments about being "too tight" but that usually has to do with state of arousal - or lots of orgasms - they can turn me into a vice grip.
Well all be dang ...check that out. Learned something new. My wife is one and done so that's something I would have never even considered or thought about.
"The depth of a woman's mind is only as deep as their vagina dictates!"
This damned steamy-assed dialogue is not doing a horny old fart like me the least amount of good!
Status
Not open for further replies.
You have insufficient privileges to reply here.
Related Threads
?
?
?
?
?
Talk About Marriage
4.9M posts
105.4K members
Since 2007
A forum community dedicated to married life between you and your spouse. Come join the discussion about love, romance, health, behavior, conflict resolution, care, and more!