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post #1 of 48 (permalink) Old 11-27-2019, 08:17 AM Thread Starter
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Depth during sex question.

This can be answered by men who have knowledge but ladies might know more.

Can a vagina stretch longer if you're careful?

Like, let's say a woman is aroused, as lubricated as she is going to get and she is penetrated until it stops but only has an inch to go. If she is careful and on top, can she stretch a little more until she can comfortably accommodate it?
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This can be answered by men who have knowledge but ladies might know more.

Can a vagina stretch longer if you're careful?

Like, let's say a woman is aroused, as lubricated as she is going to get and she is penetrated until it stops but only has an inch to go. If she is careful and on top, can she stretch a little more until she can comfortably accommodate it?
I do think ladies might know more (probably much more)!!!

I'm pretty small but i've been with some big ones. At least for me, it does stretch to fit one that's longer than the original "bottoming out", if that makes sense. I've had ones where there was more than 2 inches or so remaining after it hit "bottom" (cervix i guess). Some guys like wanted to get it all in and others just stopped where it naturally stopped.

It can be painful or at least uncomfortable with the pressure. I don't think there's much getting around that. It REALLY helps the more excited/aroused I am. That helps with the tolerance for any discomfort and makes it more flexible. Also, a slimmer penis can more easily "slip past" or flex itself but a really thick one can be more like getting punched in the stomach! Same for level of hardness i guess.

OMG I can't believe i said all of that but hope it helps!
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I do think ladies might know more (probably much more)!!!

I'm pretty small but i've been with some big ones. At least for me, it does stretch to fit one that's longer than the original "bottoming out", if that makes sense. I've had ones where there was more than 2 inches or so remaining after it hit "bottom" (cervix i guess). Some guys like wanted to get it all in and others just stopped where it naturally stopped.

It can be painful or at least uncomfortable with the pressure. I don't think there's much getting around that. It REALLY helps the more excited/aroused I am. That helps with the tolerance for any discomfort and makes it more flexible. Also, a slimmer penis can more easily "slip past" or flex itself but a really thick one can be more like getting punched in the stomach! Same for level of hardness i guess.

OMG I can't believe i said all of that but hope it helps!
That does help and thank you.
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That does help and thank you.
I guess everyone has to be an expert on SOMETHING. Mine must be fitting overgrown penises into my petite body. LOL. Sorry, sometimes i have a strange sense of humor. Sometimes you need to laugh about this stuff! Better to laugh than to cry.
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I guess everyone has to be an expert on SOMETHING. Mine must be fitting overgrown penises into my petite body. LOL. Sorry, sometimes i have a strange sense of humor. Sometimes you need to laugh about this stuff! Better to laugh than to cry.
Sweetie, I appreciate your anonymous help. We all have different ranges of experience. I'm not proud of how I got mine but I have it and share so maybe someone else can benefit.

I'm sure you aren't the only woman who has this experience.

Mrs. C is going through it now because we found a position that I absolutely love but it is frustrating because it doesn't totally satisfy without being able to go all the way in for me.

Thank you!
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It REALLY helps the more excited/aroused I am. That helps with the tolerance for any discomfort and makes it more flexible.
My wife is a very small woman. She would give the same answer as @JustTheWife

In our case childbirth was a huge help but I’m thinking your not quite that desperate LOL.

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Re: Depth during sex question.

In my wifes case, she definitely can stretch, but there are some positions that I simply have to hold back on. If she is really turned on, she actually prefers to feel the pain that comes from it while having sex, but the pain is there nonetheless.

She only stretches so much.

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In my wifes case, she definitely can stretch, but there are some positions that I simply have to hold back on. If she is really turned on, she actually prefers to feel the pain that comes from it while having sex, but the pain is there nonetheless.



She only stretches so much.


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The vagina lengthens and thins/stretches as the female sexual pleasure increases. Do the math. If you really want in there, take your time


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In her case, it doesn't stretch enough that it doesn't cause discomfort... if she is really turned on, she just stops caring about the discomfort.

I usually angle myself so that I don't push that far deep into her, no matter how hard I thrust. The idea being to allow both of us to "get lost in the moment" without actually hurting her.

She just just received the ok to have sex again at her latest post-hysterectomy appointment... yesterday. She missed having sex even more than I did... lol

We are easing back into things...

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This conversation makes me sad. Some of us just don't have the right "equipment" for this to an issue. I think TAM should ban all penis threads from this day forward, to spare the feelings of us guys that don't measure up. I will forever feel inadequate for having read this. Woe is me.
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This conversation makes me sad. Some of us just don't have the right "equipment" for this to an issue. I think TAM should ban all penis threads from this day forward, to spare the feelings of us guys that don't measure up. I will forever feel inadequate for having read this. Woe is me.
Jokes.
Shut up!

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Re: Depth during sex question.

Google "vagina tenting"
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Google "vagina tenting"
It’s not reliable though. You can’t know for sure if it will happen or even if it does happen it can stop all of a sudden too. It’s not a guarantee to use to cram more up in there.
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Google "vagina tenting"
This makes sex possible to begin with.
I'm wondering if, after much arousal, an orgasm or two and penetrative sex for a while, if a vagina can stretch a little more to where it is comfortable.

My wife is little and we just found a position that is amazing but it doesn't feel as good for me without her being able to go all the way down.
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