First let me introduce myself--I am a very whitebread, introverted mom of seven children, 56yo, living in the suburbs. I am possibly about as "unexciting" as June Cleaver (only I don't wear dresses or pearls when I vacuum). I read, write, crochet, cross-stitch, and LOVE movies... so wow, I sound boring, hey?
What you would never know by seeing my whitebread exterior is that I have two tattoos, I go to rock concerts, I ride pillion on a BMW motorcycle (and LOVE it), I love camping and hiking, just tried zip-lining and adored it, and I don't mind getting a little mud on my tires.
Now, I tell you all this because it's fairly easy to see someone from the exterior and think "Soccer Mom" or "boring" when in reality they have a bit of a wild heart. Maybe YOU have a little bit of a wild heart....but either you see yourself as not all that exciting or others have told you you're not that exciting. That doesn't mean you aren't exciting.
The trick is to find what makes YOUR heart sing with excitement.
So yep traveling is a blast, but one person's idea of traveling is 5-star hotels and champagne...and another's is backpacking through the hillside. We don't know you. We don't know what makes your heart sing. But YOU DO!! What is something you have always wanted to try but weren't brave enough to do it? THAT is what you need to do ... JUST DO IT.
I started with one hike up a small hill. Then I started walking every day...and now I want 4-5 miles per day. I started with a 3k on New Years Day and now I participate in 5ks to stay motivated. I started with trying a motorcycle class (that as scary and I was the oldest by far) and now I ride behind my sweetie and LOVE it! I started with a wolf tattoo over my heart to protect it...and I just got another tattoo as a permanent reminder of a promise made. So pick one thing you have always wanted to do or wanted to try. Tell us what it is--inquiring minds want to know! LOL And oh by the way, if you really like reading, writing, crocheting, etc. keep doing those things too! Those activities are quieter but if they bring you joy, that's YOU.