I'm doing some Kegel exercises while reading this thread, lol!
I had a very tight vagina before having kids. Sex sometimes was painful. It felt uncomfortable, even though I had the drive, I needed lots of lube and patience to make it enjoyable for me.
After having my first child I felt the difference. Sex was not uncomfortable anymore! It became a lot more enjoyable for me and my husband. He has never never mentioned any difference. The change is very minimal but very beneficial for me.
Sex to me is a combination of elements. I don't really care about penis size because I enjoy the flirting, the touching, the kissing... It's the whole act that makes it good. Not just the penis. Most of my female friends agree with me, so I'm not the only one feeling this way.
I met my husband when he was dating another girl. She had huge boobs! The first time we had sex I felt very self-conscious about my small boobs (I thought he was going to get disappointed once I took off my push up bra!) We had an amazing first time. After a few times, he said he loved my breasts! Size didn't matter
Would you be less happy with a woman who doesn't have a tight vagina or has small boobs?
It's not about disappointing someone with a body part, it's your attitude towards something that you have no control of (your natural penis size.) I don't understand it. Has this person said anything about your penis?
Well, I have a reputation for liking large boobs. Mostly, I just was joking and made some women very angry because they believed me. My first wife had Bs. I loved them. My second had Ds and I loved them. Aesthetically, I don't care for large boobs on a petite woman or small boobs on a larger woman. However, it wasn't their boobs that made me fall in love. Those were just the toys they brought with them. lol
Would I be less happy with a women who doesn't have a tight vagina or has small boobs? I think I answered the boob part above. The vagina part is tougher. It's like asking a woman if it's alright if her husband never stimulated her clit manually or otherwise. That would be tougher, but if there was a great deal of love and respect combined with openness and honest, it's possible to work through.
It would kinda suck though.
Has this person said anything? No, I haven't had sex in over eight years. I haven't dated in like forever. I think seventeen years when I met my second wife. So, I'm all messed up. I didn't even know how to approach any women. I had no clue how to talk to them. They talked to me and I didn't understand. I felt like an alien. I still do not understand sleeping with someone who I just met. I'm going to attempt it some day. I know, three days is good, but for me, that's fast. lol
If you read my last post here, you will understand a little more.
She came home three days before she left. She was supposed to leave on this day. She told me she would. She grabbed my wrist and dragged me upstairs telling me we had do have sex right now. I was totally out of my gourd. I thought she was leaving and didn't even like me. She wanted a divorce. She ended up ****ing me, but whatever she had in there before me was enormous and it just ****ed up my head.
Later, after she was gone, she told me I had a small penis. She gaslighted me so much, I nearly did go crazy. I had a nervous breakdown, for one thing. I didn't know up from down or left from right. So, I've got a hell of a lot of rebuilding to do.