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post #91 of 92 (permalink) Old 11-28-2019, 04:37 PM
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Re: Bachelor Nation: 70% of Men Aged 20-34 Are Not Married

Originally Posted by Marduk View Post
What snowflakes?

Using this definition: Snowflake is a 2010s derogatory slang term for a person, implying that they have an inflated sense of uniqueness, an unwarranted sense of entitlement, or are overly-emotional, easily offended, and unable to deal with opposing opinions.

From my vantage point, in my mid 40's, the majority of 'snowflakes' I see are the aging boomers that got pandered to, had society crafted for them, were given benefits they don't acknowledge, and are now totally out of touch with the reality millennials now face as an outcome of their behavior. For example, they are inheriting a world of skyrocketing education costs (boomer cuts in education), skyrocketing real estate costs (boomers leveraging cheaply bought real estate as a retirement vehicle), costly climate change as a result of boomer industrialization, a wildly out of control national debt as a result of spending they didn't do, a pension system that won't be available to them, medical costs that don't scale in a system only designed to facilitate the wholesale extraction of wealth from the population, and a job market that no longer cares about the workforce in the kind of social contract that boomers took for granted.

And that's just economics.

On a personal note, I have a number of millenials working for me. Man, do they work hard and in surprising ways. I got a total re-TCO assessment on a multi-million dollar project from one of them while she was on vacation in central america - which she also used to cut a deal for one of her entrepreneurial side gigs. Wow. While the last time I went to a supermarket, a 60s something women walked right in front of my wife in line at the check-out, and when called out for it, laughed at both my wife and the check-out person, saying "she's paid her dues and it's time for everyone to move aside for her."

This is not to say that some of today's youth is checked out, can't be bothered, and just want things for free. My own nephew is like this. However, he's like this because of his parents that coddled him and are now disturbed by their own creation. My son, who's 7 years younger, is actually more mature, responsible, and capable of basic life skills than my nephew. That's just parenting.

At any rate, if the youth of today feels entitled, it's likely because it's the parents of today encouraged them to be. But I think a lot of what shows up as entitlement is actually a reaction to a system that had them screwed over coming out of the gate, and they've decided not to play by our rules. And that's what the next generation - any generation is supposed to do.
The world is designed for men of average height, of the default race and religion, of average athleticism, and average intellect. They fit in well and consider it an achievement, like a tree in a forest thinking it is really good at camoflage.

When the time passes, and society changes, it will be a shock and not a trivial one.

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post #92 of 92 (permalink) Old 11-28-2019, 06:12 PM
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Re: Bachelor Nation: 70% of Men Aged 20-34 Are Not Married

Originally Posted by Mr The Other View Post
I think that is confusing cause and effect.
"It is a truth universally acknowledged, that a single man in possession of a good fortune, must be in want of a wife."
I didn't state any cause or effect. It is entirely possible men w/ money are the ones who get married, I never said different.
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